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Dildos and Dongs

What is the difference between a Dildo and a Vibrator ?.
Usually a dildo is shaped like a penis and doesn't’t vibrate. A dildo can be any shape, size or colour and they come in different thicknesses.
The main use of a dildo unlike a vibrator is to perform thrusting movements into the vagina to simulate the feel of a real penis.
 
 
Does size matter ?
When choosing your new dildo, you could go for something which is similar size to that of your partner (if you have one). It is worth noting than men tend to purchase much larger dildo's for their female partners, so if in doubt, discuss it with your man.

Testicles
Some dildos have testicles, some girls like this as they can stimulate the clitoris (when turned around) and also provide an excellent aid for holding the dildo.

Sturdy Suction Foot
Some dildos have a suction foot at the base, these are fantastic for sticking to smooth surfaces, such as floors (obviously not carpet) furniture like tables, chairs etc and even walls. This allows you to use the dildo hands free which has it's own benefits.

Our best selling dildo is the 8 inch man size realistic dildo
8 inch man size realitic cock dildo

 
 
Double Enders
Double ended dildos can be used by lesbians, gay men and used by some couples, which allows one end to be inserted into the males anus whilst the other goes into the vagina, back and forth movements by both couples pushes the dildo deeper into each other.

Double Ender like this one
The Snake double ender dildo

 

Vibrators

What is a Vibrator
Vibrators (sometimes called vibes) come in many forms, they can be penis shaped, or look nothing like a penis, however the one thing they all have in common is that they all vibrate or pulsate.
vibrators are excellent partner toys, and can enhance the fun beyond belief.
 
Vibrating Stimulation
When used on the clitoris the vibrating sensations can be truly earth moving.
Vibrations feel so good against your skin because they increase blood flow to that area and boost its sensitivity.
Vibes also work beautifully on your G-spot, and as with all sex play, penetration is only part of the story.

The best selling vibe of all time is the ladyfinger

Ladyfinger Vibrator

 
 

Realistic Vibrators
These are usually the choice of ladies who like the realism and the feel of what looks and feels like a real cock. The realistic ones usually are veined and have the penis shape and including on some models, testicles.

The best selling realistic vibrating dildo is the My Lord 10 inch Vibrator

My Lord Realistic 10 incher

 
 
Personal Massagers
Normally contoured vibrators, look nothing like a real penis and more often than not in calming pastel colours like purple, red, green, yellow etc. They are ergonomically designed to fit the contours of the female body.
Personal Massager

 
 

Classic Vibrators
Normally slim, smooth and made of plastic, classic vibes are basic and although they don't resemble a real penis, some models do give out very powerful vibrations so can be used for great clitoral satisfaction. These models are not a good choice for those who want to feel the thrusting movement inside the vagina, as most are too smooth to be effective for stimulating the inside of the vagina.

Ladyfinger Vibrator

 
 
G-Spot Vibrators
These vibrators are designed specifically to stimulate the G Spot.
The G Spot is short for the Graffenberg Spot and is named after the German medical doctor who discovered it.. Some people are convinced the G Spot does not exist, others however know it exists because they have experienced the pleasure of the spot being stimulated.
The G Spot unlike the clitoris (unless you are a man) is difficult to find. It is located inside the vagina approx 1 to 2 inches inside on the upper wall towards the tummy, "an erotic zone located on the anterior wall of the vagina along the course of the urethra that would swell during sexual stimulation" is how Dr Graffenberg described it.
To find the G Spot on your own during solo masturbation is very difficult which is why manufacturers designed and made the G Spot vibrator. The G Spot vibrator is curved at the tip, it is curved so that when it is inserted into the vagina, the tip finds the spot easily. Something your own fingers would find difficult to do.

One of our most popular G-spot vibes is the rock chick
Rock Chick G-spot vibe

 
 The G Spot needs a great deal of stimulation and during stimulation some slight discomfort can often be felt and sometimes the feeling of wanting to pee occurs, this is quite normal.
If you ignore the urge and the slight discomfort and continue stimulation, the urge and discomfort disappears to be replaced by a very pleasurable feeling that leads to a very intense orgasm that is much stronger than a clitoral orgasm.
In some cases the orgasm is so strong, that the women will experience female ejaculation, this is a jet of liquid that shoots out of the vagina. Whilst there is a large number of people who dispute female ejaculation, claiming that it is the women releasing urine from her bladder at the point of orgasm, these doubters have been disproved by the results done in tests that some females can ejaculate a milky looking fluid that is definitely not urine.
The further tests carried out also revealed that those women who can have a female ejaculation have one, only because the G Spot has been stimulated. To experience a G Spot orgasm and possible ejaculation you need to experiment and be very patient, some women will never experience it despite repeated attempts.
Whilst those who can have a G Spot orgasm are in the minority, it can be fun trying!
 
 

Clitoral Stimulators
A vibrator of any type can be used on the clitoris, however, there are many different types available now that are specifically made and are shaped uniquely to stimulate the clitoris. When deciding on which type of clitoral vibrator is right for you, consider the following:

Vibrating Bullets
The vibrating bullet is worth consideration as this can be held in the hand and moved around the clitoris quite easy. vibrating bullets

There are many different types of bullet, long, short, slim, fat and coloured so it becomes a matter of personal choice. Depending on how much stimulation you like on the clitoris, if you prefer light stimulation then choose one in jelly as this provides softer vibrations for the more tender clitoris.
If you like or need stronger vibration because your clitoris needs more stimulation then choose the solid plastic type as these produce more intense vibration direct to the spot.

 

Vibrating Bullet
Vibrating Eggs and Balls
The choice of vibrating eggs and balls is growing enormously due to popular demand.
The vibrating eggs are shaped exactly as a boiled egg, some are for inserting into the vagina whilst others are used anally. When the egg is inserted into the vagina, the vibrations can be felt up the vagina and all the way down to the vaginal lips, some women even feel vibration up as far as their clitoris.
Customers love the vibrating eggs they say it produces a lovely pleasurable and somewhat unique feeling inside the vagina and if a clitoral stimulator or vibrator is used in conjunction with the egg, the resulting orgasm is one to remember because it is so intense.
Vibrating Eggs

 
 

Rabbit Vibrators with Clitoral Stimulation
The most popular selling sex toy for the last few years and this is not surprising because what the rabbit does is just incredible.
There are now over one hundred different types of rabbit vibrator, from the basic model that vibrates and has rotating beads in the shaft through to the sophisticated models that twirl around, have rotating beads, bend at the tip, oscillate, vibrate and just fall short of making you a drink at the same time!
When you consider buying a rabbit vibrator, you need to ask yourself what type of stimulation you enjoy. Do you enjoy simultaneous stimulation whereby your vagina, clitoris and g-spot all get stimulated at once? If the answer is yes, then a rabbit is for you.
You need then to consider how much stimulation you want, if you want plenty of it then choose a more sophisticated model that oscillates, the extra cost on these models is well worth the money.
You can see the range of rabbit vibrators here

Jessica Rabbit Vibrator outsells all other Vibrators

Jessica Rabbit Vibrator

 
 

Butterfly Vibrators
These are generally hands free vibrators that strap on around your hips and cover your vaginal area. The advantage of these is that you have both hands free for other things.
The vibrations produced by the range of butterfly type vibrators can be very strong and the vibrations produced tend to be very direct on the clitoris, as opposed to the vaginal area.
These vibrators are not for every women, some find them too intense or a little uncomfortable to wear, so bear this in mind before you choose.
There are models available now that are remote controlled, whereby you wear the butterfly out in public and your partner can turn your butterfly on at the flick of a switch!

See one of our most popular butterfly vibes here

Butterfly vibrator


 

 

Anal Toys

Anal Play
The thought of anal dildos to some people is a real turn off. Some consider any form of anal play to be disgusting or degrading. Those who hold this view appear to be in the minority. Sales of all types of anal dildos, Anal Beads, Anal Vibrators and anal sex toys have rocketed in the last 5 years or so.
The reasons for this are no doubt various, but one factor has to be that as a society we are now more liberal in our approach to sex and our previous inhibitions are no longer there.
Another reason probably is that because more couples are prepared to experiment now than say 20 years ago, their sexual play is helping more men and women to discover that playing around the anus does provide very nice feelings of satisfaction.

Anal play can be extremely pleasurable mainly because the anus has very delicate nerve endings and when stimulated the pleasure can be far greater than the excitement and satisfaction experienced from vaginal penetration.
There are however some very important things to consider before and during any type of anal play.
The first thing is that because the anus is very delicate and has a very thin lining throughout the anal passage, anything that is inserted must be clean, smooth and lubricated.

Take Care.
It must be remembered that the anus leads to the bowel, the bowel is an area that can hold large items, therefore you should never insert anything that is likely to get sucked into it, some people have ignored this advice and ended up in casualty with some very embarrassing explaining to do! We recommend that you should only ever use sex toys that are made specifically for anal use, anal sex toys have safety features built in, like expanded bases on vibrators, dildos and butt plugs.
The large bases are there for a reason to stop the item during the height of sexual pleasure from being sucked into the anus.

Relax - this won't hurt.
Another important factor concerning anal play is you need to be relaxed, the anal sphincter is naturally tight for obvious reasons, therefore anything that penetrates the opening causes the sphincter to tighten up which if you are not relaxed can make insertion painful or uncomfortable. Once you are relaxed, the next thing is plenty of lubrication. The anal passage unlike the vagina does not produce natural fluid, so lubrication is essential. Never ever use any type of force when inserting an anal sex toy, take it slowly, gently and carefully, if it’s difficult to insert it is probably because your partner is not relaxed enough or there is too little lubrication.

It is not recommended to use any sextoy for anal use in the vagina, the anus has bacteria that is harmless in the anus but can cause problems if this bacteria is transferred into the vagina, from say a sextoy or fingers.

Communicate.
The final thing to remember is communication. If you or your partner at anytime during anal play or insertion says no or stop, you should stop immediately no excuses. If you have never experienced anal play, you could be missing out on a delightful experience because the pleasure that can be had is hard to describe, provided you and your partner are relaxed and careful. Those who are concerned that putting something into the anus will cause them to lose their bowel control should not worry, the anus will always revert back to normal, provided that any anal play is gentle and care is taken.



 
Anal Toys
Apart from the traditional anal vibrators, there are many other anal toys, like plugs, beads, douches, probes and butt plugs. The main thing to remember about anal toys is that they are designed and made for anal use and with safety in mind.
  
 

Anal Beads

Anal beads are used by men and women and it matters not whether you are a beginner or an expert, the same satisfaction can be achieved. There are different types of beads but all do much the same thing.
One example is Chinese love beads, these are plastic beads attached to a string, these beads are approximately the size of a new 5p piece, they can be inserted into the vagina or the anus. The pleasure is experienced when at the point of orgasm the beads are slowly pulled out one at a time, which users say intensifies the orgasm.
If using anal beads that are attached by string, you must always test the strength of the string. If the string appears to be weak or is frayed DO NOT use them as you wont want an embarrassing trip to casualty.

There are also plastic versions of these beads, called Thai Beads, the beads are slightly smaller and instead of being linked by string, they are attached to plastic tubing. Many users prefer this type as it is much less likely to be a safety problem. Also check that the beads are smooth all around, any sharp edges should be cut off or filed down using a nail file.

Our best sellers are these flexible anal beads

Flexible Anal Beads

 
 
Butt Plugs / Anal Plugs
These are usually shaped like a pyramid, thin at the top and wide at the base. The purpose of butt plugs is to give the filled up feeling, they come in vibrating and non vibrating versions and can be smooth or ribbed.
The smooth ones are usually used for inserting into the anus and being left there during sex play. The ribbed variety are used for inserting into the anus and then are pulled out and pushed back in gently, so that the ribbed shaft gives added stimulation.

Our best selling butt plug
Anal Plug